Saturday, December 28, 2013

i used to be rich. i used to be someone. now im poor!! what the fuk do i do?

i used to be rich. i used to be someone. now im poor!! what the fuk do i do?
i used to have a extremes amounts of u.s. moneys...i moved here from brazil...i was given oppertuni after oppertuni...i wne t shopping all the time...i had lots of nice thangs...i lived in a very expensive part of miami...i was staying in insane expnsive lofts rite on the beach...and i lost it all..i no longer have it...it depresses me insanely. what do i do. i just miss sooo much...i was comming up big...i was almost like a celeb with all the other teens my age...peeple were paying me to go to concerts with them...now im working in a restaurnat making no money....how can thangs change so mmuch quickly??? ITS NOT FAIR.
Other - Society & Culture - 4 Answers
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"Its not fair" in what way? Anyways, the upside is that you now have an opportunity to learn the real value of hard-work, achievement, and money. As much as you think this lesson is unnecessary as you already know all that... the reality is that you have no idea whatsoever unless you have pulled yourself up from hardship and poverty. As they say, you can't taste the sweet without the sour.
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Life changes rather quickly sometimes. The key to surviving this low spot in your life is to learn to be happy and grateful no matter how much you have or where you are in life. Money is not everything and most of us make it without large amounts. Are you hungry? Are you homeless? Do you have people who love and care for you? Many don't have any of these things. This will be a lesson in humility and hopefully a growing and leaning period for you. Good luck.
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You're right, life is not fair. But it sounds like you were given good fortune and you blew it. I guess the lesson is that money really does buy happiness. So don't take it for granted.
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Take control of your destiny. Have ever thought about going to college?



    Saturday, December 14, 2013

    Why are most americans poor?

    Why are most americans poor?
    I mean, i thought it was the first economy in the world, most americans don't have money, all they do is spend more money than what they make and live to pay credit card bills. I came from Brazil I bought my 150k house with cash, and they ask me where do i get 150k cash, lol these jealous americans.
    Other - Society & Culture - 3 Answers
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    Sort of answered your own question I think.
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    Because the "working" people are taxed to pay for the ones that do nothing, except spawn more blights on society.
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    most of us arent poor, just cus your asked where you got money to pay for 150k house doesnt mean most americans are poor


      Saturday, December 7, 2013

      Travel related jobs/careers? I like to travel is the only thing that really makes me happy?

      Travel related jobs/careers? I like to travel is the only thing that really makes me happy?
      Hello, I currently own a barbershop, every other year I save up enough money to go on vacation to various exotic locations, Thailand, Philippines, Brazil, etc... I'm bored with the day to day barber shop routine, and I wish I could find away to living out of my suitcase. Any suggestions...?\ Forget travel writing....I don't have the gift of pen...... Help, bored in Tucson !
      Careers & Employment - 3 Answers
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      work for an Airline as I did,you have the advantages of reduced or free tickets,and discounts up to 50oct in 5 Star hotels. you travel on stand-by of course,that's another adventure when you are offloaded.I went around the world like that,the time I enjoy most is the time I'm on board,between heaven and earth
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      You can be a travel agent or a salesperson. I worked for Expedia (in the call center) and they gave practically free travel to employees.
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      I just bought my own on-line travel agency, and now, I travel at unbelievable wholesale prices, AND, I earn commission on all my own travel and anyone else's travel booked on my website. And the best part is that all my travel is now tax deductable because I am a travel professional! Drop me an e-mail if you want more info Thanks!




        Sunday, December 1, 2013

        Looking for more traveling tips?

        Looking for more traveling tips?
        I been giving it a lot of thought, and its decided, i'm going to head down to Mexico by foot and keep heading south , hopefully i can make it all the way to Argentina or Brazil at least.. I'm taking very little money with me, no car, all i have is a backpack with clothes, sleeping bag, and about 300 dollars, and just hitchhike, or taking the bus south, its long been my dream to travel, Any tips you guys can give me, more survival essentials maybe? 
        Other - Destinations - 2 Answers
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        Before I left home, I be seeking and reading every word of blogs from people who are also traveling in the same area. I would think that your safety is not at all assured. Not only are there plenty of people who'd rob you for your shoes, not to mention your three hundred bucks, but have you ever walked the desert alone? Try it in southern Arizona or New Mexico before taking off. It can be grueling, the task of carrying the water you need fully daunting even if you're quite fit. I know a woman (online only) whose family is bicycling from Alaska to Argentina. I believe they're in Mexico now. Read their blog at http://familyonbikes.org/blog/
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        Take a lot of water because the water there is different.







          Thursday, November 28, 2013

          Are all these facts about Obama lies?

          Are all these facts about Obama lies?
          I had to repost this because., ., ., for some reason., ., the original was deleted. Hmmmmm......... Honestly though, are there any truth to these statements? I think that most are true but does anyone see anything that's not? This is not a rant., I seriously want to know for a project which ones of these I should omit. Is there anything I forgot? 1. Most expensive inauguration. Ever. 2. Appointing tax cheat Tim Geithner. 3. Appointing under investigation Bill Richardson. 4. Appointing tax cheat Tom Daschle. 5. Appointing Marc Rich and terrorist pardoning Eric “Nation of Cowards” Holder. 6. Appointing Janet “Man Caused Disasters” Napolitano. 7. Appointing Hilda Solis (OK, her husband has the tax liens). 8. Appointing anti-Semitic Charles Freeman Jr. 9. Appointing tax cheat Ron Kirk. 10. Appointing fund-raising cheat Gary Locke. 11. Appointing under investigation Adolfo Carrion. 12. Bumping his head on the Marine One helicopter. 13. Banning offshore oil again. 14. Funding abortions overseas. 15. Using the word “crisis” 25 times in a speech, then later complaining that people are too negative about the economy. 16. Letting Nancy Pelosi write the $787 billion “stimulus’ plan. 17. Relying on Tim Geithner to explain it. 18. Putting Joe Biden in charge of making sure the stimulus money is not — wink, wink, nudge, nudge — misspent. 19. Setting the Oval Office thermostat at 80. 20. Going to a press conference without a TelePrompTer. I… Uhh… Umm… Could you repeat the question? 21. Using a TelePrompTer at a press conference. Big boys don’t need training wheels. 22. Opening a press conference with: “Good evening, everybody. Please be seated. Before I take your questions tonight, I’d like to speak briefly.” 1,228 words later he took his first question. 23. Ethics waivers. 24. Going after Rush Limbaugh. 25. Going after Rick Santelli. 26. Going after Jim Cramer. 27. Trying to run the Census out of the White House. 28. Adopting the motto: “Never waste a good crisis.” 29. Writing a love letter to Vlad and Dmitry. 30. Throwing Poland under the bus. 31. Throwing Tibet under the bus. 32. Throwing Israel under the bus. 33. Taking Cuba out from under the bus. 34. Ticking off Switzerland by having his tax cheat go after the tax cheats in Switzerland. Cognitive dissonance. 35. Saying: “Karzai has a bunker mentality.” 36. Reaching out to the Taliban. 37. Iran has plans to Marine One helicopters. 38. Explaining his refusal to work with Republicans with the words: “I won.” 39. Having a BlackBerry that can easily be hacked by the Chinese. 40. Saying to the people of Peoria: “If Congress passes our plan, this company will be able to rehire some of the folks who were just laid off.” CEO: No. There will be more layoffs. 41. He gave a gift to the “wrong region” to British Prime Minister Gordon Brown. 42. Making the president of Brazil change his meeting so O’Bama could celebrate St. Patrick’s Day. 43. Telling the American people: “You can’t take a trip to Las Vegas or go down to the Super Bowl on the taxpayers’ dime.” Vegas convention bookings nosedive. 44. Serving $100-a-pound wagyu — on the taxpayers’ dime. 45. Sending a “reset” button to Russia, presumably to diss the last 70 years of America standing up to communism. 46. Having the “reset” button say “overcharged.” 47. Taking a 4-day holiday weekend before signing “emergency” legislation. 48. Stiffing Chicago for nearly $2 million for that Election Night party. 49. Telling Caroline Kennedy she would, you know, make, um a good, you know, senator. 50. Bombing Pakistan. 51. Sending the bust of Sir Winston Churchill back to the British. 52. Telling reporters privately: “President Obama has accomplished more in 30 days than any president in modern history.” 53. Walking into a White House window thinking it was a door. 54. Signing an order that doctors must perform abortions, in violation of the Hippocratic Oath. 55. Signing earmarks while denouncing them. 56. Adding signing statements while denouncing them. 57. Quadrupling the deficits, while denouncing them. 58. Considering having the VA charge veterans for service-related injuries. 59. Thanking himself in a Teleprompter malfunction. 60. Heckuva job, Tim. 61. Trade war with Mexico over 97 trucks. 62. Saying his bowling is “like the Special Olympics.” 63. Saying he didn’t know the AIG bonuses were included in the bailout package he signed. 64. Banning the press from covering his acceptance of a press association award. Forgot N.Korea missile., Iran pres., CIA doc release., release of AIG info., anything else? (All credit to Don Surber for the list., http://blogs.dailymail.com/donsurber/) Nah., this is a freedom of speech issue. I see a 100 rants from liberals on here everyday. Why is it that when I post a serious question it gets deleted? Maybe because somebody doesn't want this information seen?
          Government - 5 Answers
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          This is too long - nobody will give you answers, but then again, you really don't want any do you?
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          You can cut and paste. Congrats. Your "facts" are just so much ranting.
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          they are all true. Just think all in less than 100 days. Man is he g**d
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          Add this to your list. http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090424/ap_on_go_su_co/us_obama_defendants__rights
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          Very interesting Add Degrading America Trying to take the VA benefits from the VA's Funding oversees abortions Making non abortion doctors begin performing abortions Removing the ban on abortions ihere in American No don't delete anything You need more room I've added only just a couple more for you Honey the list goes on & on just like the energizer




          Thursday, November 14, 2013

          Air France flight from Brazil to Paris. That went down in the Atlantic?

          Air France flight from Brazil to Paris. That went down in the Atlantic?
          With all the modern means that are available, why have the flight recorders not been found as of yet? Coupled with a muiltiy country involvement. [and many millions of tax payers money have been used to do it on again coupled with milatary involvement]. It makes modern systems to sound to be stupid or all of us being "conned" by the powers that be? [and red faces on the ones concerned]. Unless we are being "miss informed". When it was said by many countries years ago that it was impossible not to find such a thing!. 
          Other - Europe - 3 Answers
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          The ocean is deep my friend. Next time have them crash on land.
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          Deep oceans? Metal sinks? And what does Muility mean? I think I figured out the rest of your garbled question, but I can't figure out what that is.
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          The CVR and FDR are each boxes about the size of microwave ovens. They are doubtless entangled in some piece of fuselage laying on mountainous ocean bottom 8,000 to 15,000 feet (2400 to 4700 m) deep. The acoustic signals emitted by the data recorder "pingers" are likely attenuated by the fuselage, debris, and ocean bottom muck, if they survived at all. The temperature specification for the pingers requires a temperature of least 28 degrees F (-4 C) water for them to operate—the Atlantic in that area could well be colder. The initial search area was a circle some 50 miles (80 km) radius. That area was a best guess based on the debris field and predicted wind conditions spreading the debris. The area could be hundreds of miles from the actual location. Tell you what. I'll hide a transistor radio turned on loud enough to be heard at 50 feet away in large forest. You go find it. Should be easy with modern technology, right?







            Thursday, November 7, 2013

            are there jcpenny stores in china?

            are there jcpenny stores in china?
            for my marketing class i have to pick a brand/retail store/product that would be a good choice of expansion in a global market. i have to make sure the product or store is not already selling there. i have to choose between china,brazil,india and russia. i was thinking the jcpenny store in china. i have read that some of the clothes from jcpenney are mae in china. so if they are made in china and shipped to the store in china wouldnt that save them money. instead of sending them all the way to the us.
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            JCPenny is not in China. Walmart would be the largest US retailer over here in China. "made in china and shipped to the store in china wouldnt that save them money" Not really. The cost of sending a container is only around $2000, which would be similar to shipping goods across China. Also in China the market is alot smaller, especially for clothing brands. There are too many smaller competing brands, and i see shops and every whole shopping centres closing after a year of business. Not enough of a retail market here, few people buying in relation to the amount of stores and products. In the US it is very consumer driven, everyone is looking to buy better clothes, material goods, etc. Also the RRP (retail price) would be a lot higher in the US compared to here. Goods are made in China because here has cheap wages, cheap wages mean people have less expendable income, meaning here is not the greatest place to be selling.


            Friday, November 1, 2013

            Do creationists in the Tea Party believe the imminent extinction of 20% of plant species is a myth?

            Do creationists in the Tea Party believe the imminent extinction of 20% of plant species is a myth?
            The Royal Botanic Gardens at Kew Gardens in England has just published a report stating that 20% of all plant species are endangered, and likely to become extinct in my lifetime. The main culprit is the ongoing destruction of the rainforests in order to create farmland, and the main driving force is the Free Market. Brazil has vowed to clear the Amazon in its drive to modernisation; President Suharto sold logging rights to all the virgin forests in Indonesia. It is only a matter of time before treaty agreements between corrupt regimes and China clears the great forests in Africa too. There is little left of the slow-growing Siberian forests closest to the Chinese border. One effect of clearing the forests is that there are no longer roots to bind the soil, which blows or washes away leaving it little use for farming after a few years. Since creationists believe that all species were created by God as they are now, do they also believe that they cannot just disappear because some businesses are making money converting wilderness to palm plantations to power their SUVs when the oil runs out? Does the Tea Party have the same disbelief in a mass extinction in this century in the same way they dismiss global warming? http://www.kew.org/science-conservation/kew-biodiversity/plants-at-risk/index.htm Creationists believe that the creation and extinction of the dinosaurs took place in the last 6000 years. Scientists hold that the dinosaurs were wiped out by a rogue asteroid colliding with Earth 65 million years ago. That was the last mass extinction event on the scale now prophesied by Kew. Recovering from this would quite likely see out human civilisation. And who bought the logs Suharto's associates cut down? Who owned these companies? Who is buying all those goods China is making? And if we have no influence over political events in foreign countries, why do we have ambassadors, and what are we doing in Afghanistan? 
            Politics - 5 Answers
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            Plants and animals come and go all the time. Seen any dinosaurs lately? Did we cause their demise?
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            Teabaggers believe that God created man to use up all of the planet's resources in their lifespan, at which point he will rapture them to heaven having left a big f*cking mess that they will be forgiven for.
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            why stop at 20% why not all lol
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            Not only is this question an obvious troll, it belongs in a different section. "President Suharto sold logging rights to all the virgin forests in Indonesia. It is only a matter of time before treaty agreements between corrupt regimes and China clears the great forests in Africa too. " You are talking about other countries policies. It is impossible for us to control what they do. "Since creationists believe that all species were created by God as they are now, do they also believe that they cannot just disappear because some businesses are making money converting wilderness to palm plantations to power their SUVs when the oil runs out?" Painting with a broad brush today. Not all creationists believe the same thing. Not all Tea Party followers drive SUVs... BTW: Most creationists are taught that we are to take care of the planet. Massive deforestation projects are not considered proper care.
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            I hope they care about the environment. What people don't understand is that, yes, species come and go on their own. But we (humans) have sped that up far too quickly. Just turn on the Discovery Channel or Animal Planet, where they document polar bears over a 10 year span and see how quickly the ice really is melting. WE did that. It may have happened on its own eventually but it shouldn't be happening right now. People are just selfish and in denial. There's going to have to be a point where we change our behavior and even try to control the population. Hopefully whatever party is in Washington will understand this!






            Monday, October 28, 2013

            is getting married to give a guy a USA residency worth $10,000?

            is getting married to give a guy a USA residency worth $10,000?
            I think not. but I was thinking that I will pay less taxes...would that even be effective if he does not live here for a while? either way...either way, I will have to be married by law- cuz I will consider me single, I dont believe in marriage- FOR THREE YEARS!!! I am getting $5,000 ahead then $5,000 once he comes. When you split $10,000 it does not sound like a lot. But I could use the money for that nice trip I want to make to Brazil. OPINIONS?? and he will get a job when he comes here..I dont even know the guy but he comes from an educated family. I am not sleeping with the guy but yeah prison is scary. YOU ARE ALL ON POINT!!! LET ME JUST ADD THAT I WAS NOT REALLY CONSIDERING IT! its too much of a hassle and as you all mentioned Ilegal! but I keep being asked by someone to help a person for her.
            Weddings - 11 Answers
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            Not worth it in my opinion.
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            dont do it,,, its not worth it in the long run, weather you need the money or not, you getting married to some one that you might not even know fully about. so you get married, after a couple of months you get a divorce. you have to look at the out come. what if you get caught,, do you wanna face being put in jail or being fined lots of money. to get money it take work, to work it takes time. time is all you need. dont let this thing bring you down.
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            I wouldn't advertise it, its illegal and if you do it and get caught you'll be in jail or paying a far heftier fine than 10k.
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            money can not buy happiness. you are the only one that has to sleep at night with the decsisions you make in,life. what if he dont find a job or its a job that dont pay anything. I would say dont do it. u dont know him. he maybe horrable in bed he may not be a social person he may not even make you feel like a spaecial woman. hope you make the right choice.
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            Marry for love not money, what if you meet the man of your dreams, but you are married. Plus he could be a creep. Come up with the money a more creative and less dangerous way. Good Luck.
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            Forget the money, how does JAIL sound?
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            First - IT IS ILLEGAL and since you posted it here, immigration authorities can PROVE that you are getting married for this reason. YES, they can track you down through this posting. NEXT - Do you really want to live with a guy you have never met and know nothing about for 3 years. You will need to PROVE to immigration authorities that you are really "MARRIED". They will separate the two of you and interview each of you. THEN, they will ask you all sorts of questions that truly married people would be able to answer. IF you can not answer those questions, then deportation follows.
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            Actually you could use the money for bail money because immigration has become a lot tougher. They interview you anytime they want without warning and they interview you seperately but ask the same questions. They can drop in any time they wish, and good luck explaining why he doesn't live there. They are also not stupid and can tell if there is love and/or any kind of chemistry or not. Personally I don't think 10 grand is worth my freedom. Besides, what happens if you meet "Mr. Right" within those three years and have to explain how you can't marry him because you sold yourself for 10 grand?
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            I thought it was for 5 years you have to be married. Still, that sounds crazy and not worth it. Maybe he will find true love with someone here and he will marry her instead.
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            Well, I think that's normal... lots of people do this in the US. Furthermore, you need the money, don't you? You won't have to sleep with the guy... What's the deal? To be honest, I feel sorry for the guy who needs to "arrange" a marriage in order to live in the US. And believe me, this guy is totally dumb because nowadays the US isn't so much different from Brazil. If he doesn't get a good life in Brazil, he won't get a better one in America. Brazil is becoming richer and richer.... and Brazilians don't need to move to the US anymore in order to get a better life. Actually, the opposite is already happening. So, if you wanna do this, go ahead, it's good for you!
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            well, let's put it this way. my very friendly, uncontested, divorce ended up costing me about 8000 dollars.



            Monday, October 14, 2013

            I need help deciding my Sweet 16?

            I need help deciding my Sweet 16?
            I am 15 years old and i need to decide my sweet 16 i want to be really different. Its going to be in Brazil and i need help choosing the theme. My parents said they are up to spend any amount of money on my party. I am going to the following countries already: France, Spain, Portugal, England, Greece. So don't tell me to make a tour because that's already planned. help please i want the most perfect party of my life and every ones that is coming to my party too! Thanks!
            Friends - 6 Answers
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            Wow, that's alot of money your parent will spend, have a sweet 16! :) *Scary Story *Go on movie *Try restaurants *and there's tour your going to right? ;)
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            You spoilt brat.
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            Spoiled brat.
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            Have you ever seen 'my supr sweet 16' on MTV? that has ideas..usually what they do is have a massive party with big themes..some people have famous singers while others do a production type theme (mulon rouge was one ) Do whatever you think is right for you. Partys,spa day ect enjoy!x
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            It won't be perfect because I won't be there.
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            umm.....if it's Brazil they had alot of native people there maybe you could do an Indian theme? Btw, Happy Birthday!





            Monday, October 7, 2013

            amerigo vespucci summary?

            amerigo vespucci summary?
            Do you think this is a good summary of the book "Amerigo Vespucci" by Felipe Fernandez Armesto. sorry its so long its from the review website but ive been trying to read the book for a month for research and its soooo boring:0 4/25/2007, is the 500th anniversary of an extraordinary event: the naming of America. The story of how it happened is a murky tale of intrepid seafarers and failed business ventures, naive scientists and greedy publishers, and dishonesty. Above all, it is the tale of Amerigo Vespucci, a small-time Florentine trader with a talent for self-promotion who reinvented himself as explorer and stargazer, and whose reputation has since become entangled in webs of myth. Felipe Fernández-Armesto's eminently readable book carefully disentangles these webs to show the part Vespucci actually played in the story. Vespucci's background was modest, though the family had connections with the powerful Medici clan that effectively ruled 15th-century Florence. The son of a notary who expected great things from his offspring, Vespucci was educated by humanists, studying Latin (not very successfully) and geography, then fashionable in Florentine academic circles, where classical treatises like Ptolemy's Geographia sparked a debate on the possibility of sailing across the Atlantic to reach the spice islands of the Indies. Vespucci was a disappointment to his father; despite his education, he chose trade, buying and selling gems for clients and operating more dubious sidelines in blackmail and pimping. His businesses didn’t prosper, and by March 1492, Vespucci was in Seville, working for a fellow Florentine, Gianotto Berardi, one of the backers of Columbus's historic journey across the Atlantic. When Columbus returned in triumph in 1493, they secured the lucrative contract to supply the explorer's second fleet, but the expected profits failed to appear, even after the Spanish banned slave traffic in their new colonies. Berardi died in December 1495, entrusting his daughter to Columbus, and his debts to Vespucci. Still convinced that Columbus had reached the edge of the Indian Ocean, and that a fortune trading in gems and spices was his for the making, Vespucci joined an expedition in 1499 to explore pearl beds discovered by Columbus off the Venezuelan coast. This first trip was not a success. Nor was a second. So Vespucci devised another way of making money, transforming himself from luckless trader into a supposed expert on transatlantic navigation and the lands across the sea. The first account of Vespucci's voyages, Mundus Novus (New World), was published in Florence, 1504. Describing the horrorific voyage, the ships saved only by his skill at celestial navigation and the exotic people he had seen, richly laced with salacious detail, this blockbuster was an instant success, reprinted 23 times in two years. In 1505, another book appeared, the Soderini Letter, purporting to be by Vespucci and claiming him as the true discoverer of the New World. However, as Fernández-Armesto shows, it was a cut-and-paste fake, designed to cash in on the enormous popularity of Vespucci's Mundus Novus. The story next moves to the remote French town of St-Dié, where a group of enthusiastic geographers, working under the patronage of the Duke of Lorraine, were preparing a new edition of Ptolemy's Geographia. In early 1507, they received the text of the Soderini Letter, now addressed by Vespucci to the duke, and decided to incorporate it into their work, the typesetting of which was completed on April 25, 1507. On their huge world map, emblazoned over what is now Brazil, was the continent's new name, America, honoring the man they assumed was the author of the Soderini Letter. The hapless geographers soon realized their mistake, but it was too late: Their work also became a bestseller, and the name stuck.
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            OMG thank you so much ive been looking for something like this for hours. i love you. Im in 9th grade and that was my summer reading book and i have a quiz tommorow and i didnt understand the book at alll!!!!!!!!!! Thank you.i think its really good!!!! :)



            Tuesday, October 1, 2013

            parents not letting me go w/ boyfriend on vacation?

            parents not letting me go w/ boyfriend on vacation?
            Sorry, sorry, sorry, I posted this before!! I just forgot to add ....I have all the money myself, have figured out own form of transportation, literally everyting is taken care of. I dont need anything from them except their permission!! Also, of course, his parents WILL be there to "keep an eye on us" and ive already guaranteed my parents that my boyfriend and I wont go anywhere without his parents with us. (His parents are amazing, and super nice, and they believe we should get some time to experience life.) And theres even a way i can get a job there, from my bf's dad! So id even be making money on the trip (unlike what im doin here.) ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me and my boyfriend will both me 19 next month, we're both in university (2nd year), are living together in my parents house, and have been dating for 2.5 years. His parents want him to come back to his home country (brazil) for his 19th birthday. we live in Eastern Canada. I am a B+ and A student in university, and responsible. My parents let me go with him to Brazil when we were only dating 5 months when we were 16, but since then they simply dont trust me. (My mom is bipolar and they are having marital problems, and i am only hurting their relationship by being here.) I would like to go, because I'd like to spend his birthday with him, and i am very unlucky this summer getting a job (ive had one since I was 16 before this! and i had one in university, but the job ended when April (end of term) came. Jobs are scarce because of the recession.) My parents have always been rather harsh with me. Strict, and such. Is there a way i can convince them to let me go? Or would it be acceptable to just tell them I'm going without their permission? (So far, I have not been able to get them to approve.)
            Singles & Dating - 7 Answers
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            Lol. Darling, you're 18. Almost 19. You don't need your parent's permission for ANYTHING. You're a legal adult.
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            Unbelievable, you state that you live together with your parents and then you state that your parents will not let you go on vacation with him? I find this question very odd. You're old enough to just tell your parents what you are going to do and say bye, bye on your way out.
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            If your 19 and still asking your parents for permission for things like this, you need to get out of the nest and get your own place. Your both adults now!
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            You live under your parents roof and they pay for college. You go by their rules until you move out.
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            i know, such a drag when parents don't trust u. i think that ur 19, u should be able to make ur own decisions. As long as u can afford it and u are responsible, u should be able to go. Hope i helped.
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            First of all you must have done something in that trip to brazil when you were 16 that's probably the reason your parents are letting you go. I say talk to them tell them whats the difference of being 16 and going to brazil and being 19 and going to brazil tell them your more mature(job, grades etc...), and if they still say NO. Its up to you you're 18 almost 19, you can go without your parents permission. But if you value your families trust towards you and the relationship you have with them (as in close) than i wouldn't go or I would beg until permission was granted.
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            It's not your parents' decision to make. You're 18 and an adult, so take that vacation with your boyfriend and have a great time.