Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Please help im sooo homesick. Please.?

Please help im sooo homesick. Please.?
Well this is a weird story. Well i live in the san francisco bay area and i was born here. but when i was 7 me and my family moved to goiania in brazil. We moved there because my family is from there. they grow up there. But when i was 9 we came back because the money was short. But i fell in love with goiania. The tropicalness and the palm trees and just walking on the street at night with warm weather and safely with my cousins. Well im 12 now and i barely have family here. and i hate the cold and i just love brazil. the different culture and places to go. i love to live a simple life. Help me how can i convince my parents to go back or maybe make sf like brazil
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1 :
go home then.
2 :
think about great things that are here like more freedom than any other country on earth.
3 :
i dont think that you can convince your parents to go back.. if i were you id just try to make the best of san fran and move there when your done with school..
4 :
act like a homosexual and they might move back. SF is the homosexual capital of the world.
5 :
ask if you can go live with your cousins without your parents girl or atleast ask for a year down there
6 :
you're gonna be homesick. it's a given. cant make any place like any other place - just aint gonna happen. that said, i'm sure you have mementos of brazil - try to give those a little attention every day.
7 :
just think of sf as brazil except for palms u have lamp posts and and buildings as concret jungles i hope i helped
8 :
That's a sad tale my friend :( Do you have friends and family in Goiania? Or anywhere in Brazil? Maybe you could talk to your parents about letting you spend the summer with them! I know summer seems like a long ways off, but I doubt your parents would want you to be gone on Christmas break.. Unless your school offers any kind of homeschool program--my mom's highschool offered that-. Where they sent the work with her as she traveled, and she did it and sent it back for them to grade. But most schools don't offer anything like that -- and even if they did, your parents would probably be uncomfortable with it. I know Summer is a long ways off, but that gives you something to look forward to! Something to live for :) Plus, you have a long time to convince them if they don't buy into it at first,right? Until then, there are a lot of fun things to do in the fall/winter! I know it's cold...corn mazes are always fun in Autumn, if you get a few of your friends together on a weekend or something. And halloween is coming up, which is full of fun trick-or-treating activities and whatnot. Snow will be on the ground soon, which makes everything perfect for sledding, skiing, snowmobiling, snowforts and fights, ice skating..i just love the winter! I remember this saying once....if you can't have what you want, want what you have! ;)
9 :
Try to make the most of what you have in San Fran - the education, the different cultures. Try to pick some things you do like about living in SF. Do you know any other Brazilians there? If not, there must be some clubs or something, so you can spend time with people that might remind you a bit of home. That would seem like the first step to making SF feel more like Brazil. You'll always have a chance to go back in future if you still want to, so do the things that will help you achieve that easily when you are older and the time comes e.g. being able to speak Br Portuguese properly (and / or any language they might speak in Goiania). One day you will get the chance to return, just remember that at the moment your parents are probably just trying to do what is best for you all right now. And one last thing since you mention the weather, I am from Britain where we have more grey and cold than San Francisco everyday and it sucks!! So think yourself lucky!
10 :
It must have the same effect to your parents. The economy is what make most people leave their natural environment. I suggest you try to get used to it and hope that one day when you are old enough to look after your self you move back there at the risk of becoming poorer.
11 :
I know what you mean. My grandparents sold a camp they had in the Bahamas 25 years ago. I still want to go back in time and relive happy times there. You at least only have another two or three years before you can become an exchange student and go back to Brazil for school.